Watching “It’s a Wonderful Life” on Christmas day, I saw something I had not noticed before in George’s redemptive story.
As George is experiencing everything he lost if he had never been born, he is concerned with each new lost relationship. But when he realizes he has lost the love and respect of his beloved wife Mary, George is broken to the point of begging for his life back.
Why was Mary his turning point and reality check?
Because Mary is George’s heart and core.
Mary never despised staying in Bedford Falls.
Mary never disparaged George’s dreams.
Mary never disapproved of George’s choices.
Mary never criticized or condemned the Building and Loan.
Mary never demanded more money or better things.
I think Mary taught George how to appreciate all the good things he had.
I think Mary taught George how to enjoy simple things and good friends.
I think Mary taught George how to love and support those you care about.
Mary brings out the best in George.
Mary is the reason George is able to save their town from Potter’s complete control … and destruction.
Mary is the reason George fulfills his dream to build a city … even when does not realize he is doing it.
Mary is the quiet, unassuming hero of the story.
Mary is the epitome of a Christian life well-lived by active grace and willing humility.
Just like Jesus.
Jews expected a centurion-like warrior who would victoriously conquer the Roman Empire … and all other Jewish enemies and deterrents.
But instead, Jesus came as an unassuming and helpless baby … born into the most humble (and somewhat embarrassing) of circumstances.
No weapons.
No armor.
No army.
No desire to fight with might.
He came with a greater power to propose His mighty purpose.
He fought with love and truth and acceptance.
He changed lives because He took the time to care.
And I think Mary saw this and adapted this heart of Jesus into her day-to-day life. I think her goal was to love well … and be content in that love.
I think Mary is the epitome of “rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances” (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 NIV).
In this new year, may we all grow to be more like Mary, who so beautifully reflects the heart and purpose and love of Christ.
Marie Fremin. 1/6/24 and 1/7/24.
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