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Gospel of Self

Galatians 1I marvel that you are turning away so soon from Him who called you in the grace of Christ, to a different gospel, which is not another; but there are some who trouble you and want to pervert the gospel of Christ. But even if we, or an angel from heaven, preach any other gospel to you than what we have preached to you, let him be accursed. As we have said before, so now I say again, if anyone preaches any other gospel to you than what you have received, let him be accursed. 10 For do I now persuade men, or God? Or do I seek to please men? For if I still pleased men, I would not be a bondservant of Christ.


I’m reading these words this morning, and I’m thinking ….

What does it mean?  How does it apply to me?


Because I don’t think I’m not personally trying to change the words of Jesus.


But then I have to be completely honest.  Because I have those areas where I want to “edit” His Word to suit my wants, my emotions, and my brokenness.


And so I keep thinking ….

Thinking about my choices.

Thinking about relationships.

Thinking about people.


And I’m wondering – do we have a group of modern day believers who are “watering down” the gospel to make it fit what we want (now)?


Yes, I think we do.


How do I know?  Phrases like “God is/will be OK with ___” or “God doesn’t mind that I ___” or “God doesn’t really mean ____”.


And it’s a slippery slope.

One choice made, maybe with a slight hesitation or a momentary doubt.

And sin steps in and sows a seed of discord and disharmony.

Another choice made, usually a little easier than the first.

And sin plants another seed to divide us from God.


With each step it gets easier to turn away from God’s best.

With each step we get faster at tuning a deaf ear to God’s whisper.

With each step sin grabs another piece of our hearts.

With each step sin continues to divide us from God’s love.

With each step sin convinces us we are right and deserve to be so.

With each step sin pollutes our thinking.


Until one day we have turned “the gospel of Christ” we once believed and cherished and revered into the gospel of self.  Because we wanted something just outside of God’s best and just around God’s grace.  So we pushed for it.  We edged around truth.  We reasoned away right.


And then, with each word we recite in our gospel of self, we become disconnected from God.  Without realizing (or caring about) the consequences of our choices, we have turned our backs on God and His direction in going after what we want, we think, and we need.  We have allowed a momentary need to override patience, overtake endurance, and overwhelm honor.  We have made ourselves all-knowing and full of wisdom instead of allowing God to speak into our choices.

Gospel of Self

All because we sought to please ourselves instead of God.

All because we want now instead of waiting for God’s best.

All because we follow our feelings instead of listening to His Spirit.


Because every moment of every day there is a whisper within us reminding us that anything in God’s kingdom worth having is worth fighting for, waiting for, and working for.


But we tune it out.  Because selfishness is easy.  Judgment is easy.  Gossip is easy.  Anger is easy.  Sex is easy.


And the things God calls us to take patience, endurance, and self-control.  Godly love is hard.  Godly forgiveness is hard.  Godly temperance is hard.  Godly long-suffering is hard.  Godly purity is hard.


And God has me taking a look at my choices – a hard and honest look.  Because I can be an expert writer of the gospel of self.  I can fill pages about what I want, what I think, and what I know.  But usually those pages don’t contain God at all – no grace, no love, no forgiveness, no selflessness.  And these are God’s goals for me.  Because God wants me to think outside myself and beyond my feelings to have impact, to have influence, and to have (good) intentions.


Will you join me and start rewriting your gospel of self?


Marie Fremin.  7/10/17


BONUS material: Here is a visual of the gospel of self versus the gospel of Christ.

Gospel of Self / Man

Gospel of Christ

What I want Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another (Romans 12:10)
What I feel bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do  (Colossians 3:13)
What I think casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ  (2 Corinthians 10:5)
You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy (Matthew 5:43) But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you (Matthew 5:44)
Microwave mentality (NOW)

instant and immediate satisfaction

Oven mentality (BEST)

Investing time for quality

Galatians 1:6

you are turning away so soon from Him who called you in the grace of Christ

Galatians 2:5

we did not yield submission even for an hour, that the truth of the gospel might continue

Galatians 1:7, 5:7

there are some who trouble you and want to pervert the gospel of Christ … [to] hinder you from obeying the truth

1 Thessalonians 5:21

Test all things; hold fast what is good

Galatians 1:10

do I seek to please men?

Galatians 1:4

[living] according to the will of our God and Father

Galatians 1:11

gospel … according to man

Galatians 1:12

gospel … through the revelation of Jesus Christ

Galatians 1:14

being more exceedingly zealous for the traditions of my fathers

Matthew 6:33

But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness

Galatians 1:16

immediately confer with flesh and blood

Hebrews 4:16

Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace … in time of need

Galatians 2:4, 5:1

that they might bring us into bondage … entangled again with a yoke of bondage

Galatians 2:4, 5:1

liberty which we have in Christ Jesus … liberty by which Christ has made us free

Galatians 2:12

when [James’ men] came, [Peter] withdrew and separated himself, fearing who were of the circumcision

2 Timothy 1:7

For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.

Galatians 2:13

carried away with their hypocrisy

Matthew 26:41

Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak

Galatians 2:14

you, being a Jew, live in the manner of Gentiles and not as the Jews, … compel Gentiles to live as Jews

Romans 12:9

Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil. Cling to what is good

Galatians 2:16

justified by the works of the law

Galatians 2:16

justified by faith in Christ

Galatians 2:20, 5:16

the life which I now live in the flesh … [and] fulfill the lust of the flesh

Galatians 5:24

those who are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires

Galatians 2:21

righteousness comes through the law

Galatians 5:5

the hope of righteousness by faith

Galatians 2:21

set aside the grace of God

Romans 3:24

being justified freely by His grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus

Galatians 3:1

Bewitched … that you should not obey the truth

Romans 6:16

 obedience leading to righteousness

Galatians 3:3

being made perfect by the flesh

Galatians 3:11

the just shall live by faith

Galatians 3:18

inheritance is of the law

Galatians 3:18

God gave [inheritance] to Abraham by promise

Galatians 3:28

There is … Jew [and] Greek, … slave [and] free, … male [and] female

Galatians 3:28

you are all one in Christ Jesus

Galatians 4:3,9

in bondage under the elements of the world … the weak and beggarly elements

Galatians 4:7

you are no longer a slave but a son, and if a son, then an heir

Galatians 4:16

I become your enemy because I tell you the truth

John 8:32

And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free

Galatians 5:6, 6:15

circumcision or uncircumcision avails

Galatians 5:6, 6:15

faith working through love … [as] a new creation

Galatians 5:13

use liberty as an opportunity for the flesh

Galatians 5:13, 6:10

through love serve one another … let us do good to all

Galatians 5:15,26

you bite and devour one another … become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another

Galatians 5:14

You shall love your neighbor as yourself

Galatians 5:18

under the law

Galatians 5:18

led by the Spirit

Galatians 5:19-21

19 Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, 20 idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, 21 envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; …

Galatians 5:22-23

22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control. …

Galatians 6:3

thinks himself to be something

Romans 12:3

not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think soberly

Galatians 6:8

he who sows to his flesh will of the flesh reap corruption

Galatians 6:8

he who sows to the Spirit will of the Spirit reap everlasting life

Galatians 6:9

grow weary … lose heart

Galatians 6:16

peace and mercy be upon them

Galatians 6:13

that they may boast in your flesh

Galatians 6:14, 1:24

boast … in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ; they glorified God in me


Stop Pushing, Start Flowing

Self-propelled lawnmowers are a great invention. With one lever, all you have to do it guide the mower. It will do everything else.

I forgot to engage the self-propel lever last time I cut the grass. I forgot it was there, so I had a hard time getting the mower up the hill. What a difference it made when I remembered it was there and activated it. I went from doing 90% of the work pushing the mower to merely guiding the mower where it needed to go.

This is exactly what we as humans do. We go and do – and keep on – until we wear ourselves out. We think we need to control every detail, every emotion, and every situation. We feel like we need to hide our real emotions, bite our tongue from speaking (simple) truths, and speak only things that will be acceptable to society (being politically correct). We live in self-propel mode, just trying to get through each day with some of our dignity intact.

Stop Pushing

But God says there is a better option than the self-propel option available. His strength!

God wants us to trade our busyness, our self-righteousness, our do-it-yourself attitudes, our emotional upheavals, our weaknesses, our mistakes, and our shame for His strength. His desire is “to give [us] beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness” (Isaiah 61:3). He wants to take everything that is wearing you out and running you ragged and dragging you down – and give you His grace, peace, and rest instead.

Why? Because He loves us. That’s the core of it. Everything He wants to give us and instill in us is because He loves us. For no good reason other than we are His children.

And His love is the foundation of the life change you so desperately need. Allowing Him to love you leads to bigger and better things. It’s the beginning of a new life, a new attitude, and a new outlook.

How can that be? Because it worked for Paul. When Paul begged God to remove his obstacles and challenges, God said no. But not because he didn’t love Paul or want to change Paul. It’s because He did. Because it was only when Paul came to the end of himself and stopped living in self-propel mode that God was able to reach in and begin working. Why? “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness” (2 Corinthians 12:9).

It’s only when we stop living in self-propel mode that God can reach into our situation, our shame, our difficulties, our bad attitudes, and our challenges to help us, guide us, and free us.

He asks us to “Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden.” He’s asking you to come with everything you are, everything you’ve experienced, everything that’s hurt you, and everything that bothers you. And what do you get in return? He promises that “I will give you rest … you will find rest for your souls” (Matthew 11:28-30).

What does this rest look like? I think Isaiah 40 gives a great idea – “29 He gives power to the weak, And to those who have no might He increases strength. 30 Even the youths shall faint and be weary, And the young men shall utterly fall, 31 But those who wait on the Lord Shall renew their strength; They shall mount up with wings like eagles, They shall run and not be weary, They shall walk and not faint” (Isaiah 40:29-31).

No need to be self-propelled. No need to hold onto hurts. No need to do anything but trust God with every minute of every day. How freeing that life would be!

So where does it start? With us coming to God with all of our self-propelled things. Hebrews 4:16 says “Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need.”

Boldly. Without fear of repercussions. Without judgment. Without fear of being rejected or turned away. Without worry of being unworthy. Without all our self-propelled ideologies.

Boldly. With confidence. With self-assurance. With trust. With hope. With joy. With strength.

So what’s the point? We aren’t designed to live in our strength, effort, or energy.

We’re to give all we are and all we need to do to Him. To sort out our priorities. To be infused with His strength. To be equipped and encouraged to go. To be reminded of the importance of walking in love.

We were created to be dependent on Him. Not independent. Not self-dependent. Not self involved. And definitely not self-propelled.

Remember how I started by saying “With one lever, all you have to do it guide the mower. It will do everything else”? That’s what faith is. All you have to do is trust God, and He’ll give you everything you need to live daily life. No more living in self-propel mode. No more relying only on yourself.

Are you ready? Will you trust Him today? He’s waiting for you.

Marie Fremin, 7/5/15 and 7/9/15